Who Meant the Most?

I have a story to share with you guys. I read this somewhere in the internet but forgot the web source >.<

There is a guy who loves two girls at the same time but didn't know which one he loves more.

Someone taught him:

"If you're happy, who do you think of first? If you think of her then she's the one you love more."

But do you really think that this is the correct way?

If you feel hesitated, try this one:

When you are sad, which girl or guy that you want to share you burden with?
(Answer this question honestly)

If you think of a certain girl/guy first, she/he is the one that you love more. However, if you think of the same girl/guy when yo are happy and sad, that's the most perfect. But if you didn't think of the same girl/guys, you should choose the one that you are willing to share your sadness with.

Do you get it?

Well, in life there are more sorrows than happiness. There are also many people that you can share your happiness with, which is not necessary your lover. And if you live happily, you can enjoy it alone, right? 

But SADNESS however not many people is willing to share your burden with you. So if you willing or tell her/him you unhappiness, she/he got to be someone who is most closest and most understanding to you.

In other words, if she/he only thinks of you when she/he is happy, but look for someone else when she/he is sad, this kind of lover is too unstable for she/he didn't treat you as someone she/he can spend the rest of her/his life with.

Source: Google Image

Thanks for reading.