Who Meant the Most?

I have a story to share with you guys. I read this somewhere in the internet but forgot the web source >.<

There is a guy who loves two girls at the same time but didn't know which one he loves more.

Someone taught him:

"If you're happy, who do you think of first? If you think of her then she's the one you love more."

But do you really think that this is the correct way?

If you feel hesitated, try this one:

When you are sad, which girl or guy that you want to share you burden with?
(Answer this question honestly)

If you think of a certain girl/guy first, she/he is the one that you love more. However, if you think of the same girl/guy when yo are happy and sad, that's the most perfect. But if you didn't think of the same girl/guys, you should choose the one that you are willing to share your sadness with.

Do you get it?

Well, in life there are more sorrows than happiness. There are also many people that you can share your happiness with, which is not necessary your lover. And if you live happily, you can enjoy it alone, right? 

But SADNESS however not many people is willing to share your burden with you. So if you willing or tell her/him you unhappiness, she/he got to be someone who is most closest and most understanding to you.

In other words, if she/he only thinks of you when she/he is happy, but look for someone else when she/he is sad, this kind of lover is too unstable for she/he didn't treat you as someone she/he can spend the rest of her/his life with.

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Unconditional Love

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What is your meaning of love? Does it mean that when we love someone we can't get close to our friends? Or does it means that we need to be there when our partner needs us to? Or does it simply saying "I Love You" to your partner? Well, the meaning of love is basically different to each of us. Even I have the different meaning of love, and so are you. From my reading, I found out that the real and true love is unconditional. What does it mean by unconditional? 

"To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future. This is because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if the become someone you disagree with. Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It's not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It's not about having a trophy in which you can show off with and tell people - this is my girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/whatever. Why? Because you do not own anyone. It's not about you're feeling 'proud' to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what."

It was so interesting to know that we have someone who love us for what we are and not for who they wanted us to be. One good advise is that: BE YOURSELF WHEN YOU ARE WITH YOUR PARTNER. 

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Expand Your Vision

As I surfing the internet, I found these interesting visual illusion that create dizziness in my head..LOL ahahaha..:D You guys should try these too!

The expert says that these visual illusion can facilitate in determining the calm and relaxed level of a person. If the illusions seems to be in active shift then it means  you need to rest a little pals! :D

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